10 Ways To Seduce Your Wife
By Alvan Chinaka 8 months ago
So many marriages have hit the rock today as a result of the man’s perception and believe that the wife hates sex or so to speak, rejects an idea of sex in their marriage. Dear men, the truth is that most times, the women are weak and may not be able to reciprocate your sexual advancements. However, at THE AWARENESS, we strive to keep you updated on issues, so that 'you no go carry last '
Today's article, is to help you navigate your way through, even when your wife is very weak to receive your advancements for sex. These tips which you are about to read, when understood and practiced, will make her jump into life, to eat you raw, even in her weak state.
Alright, grab a bottle of drink, let’s go.
The sexual life of a married woman is in many ways, a representation and fall out of her real life. To turn your wife on, you will need to break away from mundane behavior and embrace the not-so-serious side of life.
If you have been hearing ‘I’m tired’ or ‘I have a headache’ way too often, this article is for you too.
Below are ways to seduce your wife.
1) Stop arguing and fighting with your wife.
Many men quarrel with their wives. This shouldn’t be allowed to hold sway ( stay long). If you want to turn your wife on, stop arguing with her or fighting over little things. Arguments are draining and puts them off balance. Try to overlook some obvious shortcomings, just like how she overlooks some of yours. Stop annoying your wife by arguing with her and making her feel like you are putting an effort to iron out the tiny differences in your relationship. It will make her want to give back into the relationship and the marriage.
2) Bring back the teenage romantic moves within you
Here, you have to bring back those lovely moments of the past. I mean those early days that you fought so hard to get her attention. Most men throw away those little practices of early morning text and flowers, immediately their wife says yes. It shouldn’t be so. If you find yourself complaining ‘Sex isn’t how it was when our relationship started'. Everything has become dull now’, ask yourself, ‘Are you as romantic as you were when you first started seeing your wife?’ Ask yourself this question nwanne m nwoke.
To get your wife in the mood for sex, bring back the teenage romance within you. Bring her flowers without reason, randomly give her a small gift, shower her with compliments and keep doing the teeny romantic things that you used to when you started dating her. All these things will make her feel wanted all over again, and she will want you even more.
3) Play mom to the kids for a day or two.
Now, I know that most men will extremely be busy to accomplish this part, but it is very vital. In your leisure time, take out time and play Mum to your kids. Do some lovely mum-like things for them, and by so doing you will be making your wife, feel happy as you are easing her with her responsibilities. Mothers love to look after their kids but once in a while they like it if they get a break from the mundane routine of waking up, fixing breakfast, dropping the kids off to school, picking them up and so on. If you really want your wife to reciprocate positively in bed, take over some of her mommy duties for a few days. It will ease the burden of responsibility from her shoulders.
4) Groom Yourself and Put Some Effort into Staying Fit and Looking good Naked.
Man, you need to look neat and attracting at all times. Depending on whether your wife is the kind of woman who likes body hair on men or not, keep grooming yourself regularly. It turns most women on. If possible, keep an eye on the things you eat, because they go a long way to determine your look. Just like you expect your wife to be womanly and get rid of unwanted body hair and looks from time to time, it would be fair on her side to expect you to indulge in some manly grooming too. Show her that you want to look good for her and take off that excess body hair and look.
Add to your own sex appeal by staying fit, working out and doing the best you can to look good naked. If you think you need to lose a few pounds, find motivation to lose weight and hit the gym to burn off a few caloriesRelated: Money-making Rituals: Real Or Imaginary?
5) Watch a Romantic Film Together in Bed.
Even if you are not a movie person, try to cultivate the habit of seeing one. Try also to make your wife follow suit, even if she is not a movie lover. A romantic movie is a great way to kick off a romantic rendezvous in bed. Pick a romantic movie and snuggle up with your wife in bed as you both watch it while munching on snacks and your favorite beverage. Just make sure that the movie you pick does not have a sad ending. Hope I am making sense? Lol. You and your wife should be able to relate tiny bits from your own married lives to the romantic episodes in the film. As the movie’s plot progresses, there will be a time when you both will look into each other’s eyes, lock lips and passionately embrace. No, the game can start. Which game? What do I know?
6) Treat Her to a Day full of Fun: Shopping, Dinner and Movie.
Try to take your wife out, and give her some good treat. Now, I know that the economy is bad, but please always try to make out time to give a treat to her, the little way you can. Picture yourself in a situation where someone grabs your arm and says ‘I’m going to take you to the mall and buy you anything you want. Then I’m going to take you to the movies and we are going to watch your favorite flick.’ How would you feel? Presumably, you would feel excited and happy like a small child who has just been given candy. Do so to your wife. Gbam!
7) Go on a Short Weekend Trip with your Wife: Kids can Come Along.
There are so many places that you can take your wife to, depending on your budget. The best way to turn on your wife on is to plan short weekend trips so the both of you can take a break from the rut of life. Even if you take the kids along, you two can spend some quality time together and enjoy romantic kisses, hugs and cuddles in a lead up to a sizzling rendezvous in bed. It will also give your kids an opportunity to know the level of love you share.
Remember that you don’t necessarily need to spend a lot of money to travel. These short weekend trips can be as simple as driving down to cool places. Lodge in an affordable hotel and move around with kids and family.
8) Drop Sweet Words in her Ear on Intervals.
Men, you shouldn’t be too rigid at all times. Try to spice things up on intervals. Let me ask ‘When was the last time you held your wife by surprise and said I Love You’? When was the last time you called your wife from work and said "I Miss You"? If you haven’t been showing the true face of your love and affection for your wife, how is she supposed to know? Answer! Zaa ya. Lol
Keep uttering sweet nothings and shower her with love all day long. She will get goose bumps every time you hold her in your arms and whisper something in her ear as you breathe down her neck. Your tender show of love will go a long way in building up the momentum to naughty times in the bedroom. Oshey!
9) Make Her life Easier, Smoother and Better.
As silly and naïve this sounds, it is probably the best piece of advice when it comes to learning how to turn your wife on. Look around in the home and find out ways to make things easy for her. If your marriage, your kids’ activities, your wife’s job and all the other elements that make up her schedule are going great, sex life is likely to be good. But if there is a dent in the things driving her happiness and satisfaction, it is likely that there is lack of action in the bedroom. Getting your wife in the mood for sex is as easy as pulling all the plugs to keep your marriage and overall life happy and healthy.
10) Be Successful at Work and Make Your Wife Want You More.
I know that the rate of unemployment is high in the society. Well, as a man, you need to have something doing. I mean something that makes you to leave the house every morning. An idle man turns a woman off. It is only but a few that understands. No matter how little what you do is, always try to package it, to meet up with responsibilities. A passive way to turn your wife on is to be successful at work. If you are wondering how, the answer is quite simple. If you become successful at work, it is likely that you will get a promotion which means more money.
Women likes money my brother.
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